treat them mean, keep them keen

Want a man? Put yourself first.

the title of an article oh Her World Apr 2007 shouts.

here are the subtitles:

1) he doesnt marry a woman who's perfect, he marries one who is interesting.
2)dont even mention the word "commitment", that's the whole trick. the less you mention it, the closer you are to getting one. ( be cool)
3)women are constantly told amazing sex will win a man's heart. this is false.
4)when a man doesnt call, a bunch of scenarios will typically run through a woman's mind.similarly, his imagination will run wild when he doesnt hear from you.
5)a woman who puts herself first wont allow herself to be with a man who is biding his time until something better comes along.
6)there's nothing more prized to a man than something he had to wait for, work for, or struggle a little bit to get.

in a little box beside the text:
1)the first time you have sex, dont bring out previously loved sex toy.it seems too rehearsed, too premeditated.
2)never show him your Rabbit, especially if it's as big as a baseball bat.
3)let him suggest sexual position first.
4)dont undress yourself-you'll look like you cant wait to get it on.let him do it.
5)never, ever kid him about his size.
6)and dont, a la Four Weddings and a Funeral, ask him immediately after:"so when are you announcing our engagement?"

HA.we've all heard and understand the theory whereby you have to love yourself first before others could love you.but very often, when we are in love, we just want to be the Miss Eager-To-Please and appear to be too desperate, which can ironically, i will say, turn a man off.wa lau.we are already at our pounce-on-you position but you are turning us away.okie.maybe this is where point 6 comes in.=D

i dunno why.but recently, i feel veh unappreciated by baby.i m nt expecting him to shower me with gifts wadsoeva u know.i jus hope he is more verbal with how he feels and what he thinks.like.taking the initiative to call/sms me more often.. tells me he loves me misses me.. arranging on going out tog.. holding me..kissing me.. like dont always wait for me to make the 1st move.it is veh tiring.last last month, he said he knew wad to gave me for my birthday/v day/ 1st 2 months..n after tt night, i nv heard of it again.it is nt like i want tt gift badly.but it makes me wonder if he still has it in mind, am i still in mind?isit out of sight, out of mind?

or maybe it is just that we express our feelings differently, n in this case, very differently?i m obviously more vocal, more expressive, more open when he is more introvert, more reserved, more private.i m still gettin used to that.n i guess i m pretty fine actually but i have to know what he he thinks.really.i dun wan to be guessing n jumping into conclusions and end up havin misunderstandings abt each other.

man.i miss him so much.but i m not gonna cling to him like mad.at least now.when i can control myself.i dun wan him to think i m irritating or even take me for granted, though i know him thinking this way is quite near-zero.

i know he is really tied down with work n feels very very tired when he knocks off.but i nv think sendin a sms can b really tt tedious, esp to the one u love so much.i oughta b more understandin of cos.i stil rmb tt day we were on d fone, i was quite pissed he din sms/cal me after work.n he said if i cld b more understanding.honestly, it was quite hurtful.i mean.i ve been trying veh hard 2 b understandin n nice twds him al tis way.compared to how i treat others, i mus say i m veh patient with him already.n he said tt.seriously.wtf.okie.wadeva.i told him wad he said was veh hurtful,but i wil stil try to b better.ahh.

anw.wen r dey nt gonna b tog?=X
wads d ting he has to do b4 leavin her?-_-

baby.i love you =)